Saturday, July 30, 2005

remain hopeful

Nothing is worse than someone breaking your heart. To need somebody so badly and then to have to let them go is hard. And as we grow older, the more people break our heart, the worse it can feel each time.

Broken hearts are depressing, embarrasing and difficult. Fortunately, heartbreak doesn't last forever.

Let yourself let go

In dealing with a broken heart, the first thing is to let go completely. If it was not meant to be, then just let them go, and trust that someone better is going to come along. If we go back to that person who broke our hearts, they will see us as nothing more than defeated, and we would risk embarassment.

A good way to just let go is to resist the urge to return, and simply avoid calling them on the phone, emailing or contacting them otherwise.

Feel your heart

It's okay to feel bad. Take some time to feel bad. Take a walk by yourself, or listen to some sad music. There is value to every feeling, as every feeling teaches us something new about ourselves.

Talk to somebody about it. A close friend will let you vent all of your anger.As time goes on we and move further andfurther away into the 'past.' And as each day passes by, the hurt will go away, little by little, until we don't even remember the pain at all.

Keep your eyes forward

The future is rushing towards us faster than we can comprehend, and if we keepour heads turned backwards, looking at the past, we will miss seeing everything that the future is bringing to us.

2 Comments:

At 4:03 PM , Blogger nalini said...

holy macaroni!
how come you know exactly HOW i felt in the past? and how come you wrote exactly WHAT i did - all of it! lol... i know i know, you got this from somewhere! :PPPPPP

anyway, heartbreaks dont last forever, right.. but i still remember the pain...

 
At 1:57 AM , Blogger Michelle said...

got it from frenster ler...well nth lasts forever dear..sooner or later, it will go away ler

 

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