a better deal

Once upon a time, there was a teacher and his student lying down under a big tree near a big grass area.Then, suddenly, the student asked the teacher...

Student : Teacher, I'm confused, how can we find our soul-mate? Can you please help me?

Teacher : (Silent for few second, than he answer) Well, it's a pretty hard and easy question.

Student : (Thinking hard) Huh???

Teacher : Look on that way, there are a lot of grass there, why don't you walk there but please never walk backward, just walk straight ahead. On your way, try to find a beautiful grass and pick it up then give it to me. But just one.

Student : Well, ok then... wait for me... (walked straight ahead to the grass field).

A few minutes later...

Student : I'm back.

Teacher : Em, well I don't see any beautiful grass on your hand.

Student : On my journey, I found few beautiful grass, but I thought that I would find a better one, so I didn't pick it up. But I didn't realize that I'm at the end of the field, and I hadn't picked up any. Cause you told me not to go back, so I didn't go back.

Teacher : That's what happened in real life.

What is the message of this story?

* Grass - is people around you
* Beautiful Grass - is people that attract you
* Grass Field - is time

* In looking for your soulmate, please don't always compare and hope that there will be a better one. By doing that, you'll waste your lifetime, cause remember "Time Never Goes Back". It applies the same in finding your ideal life partner, your suitable career or business, therefore the morale is LOVE & grab hold of the opportunity that you have now, don't waste time!

~There Can Be Only One~

Too many times we stare too long at the closed door that we ignore the one that has already been opened for us.

pizza for dinner, any1?

itz me again! i've got nth better to do so datz why i choose to blog. hehehehe. you must think i'm very free right now seeing me online and blog so frequently. the truth is, i'm plain bored ler. nowhere to go during weekends. i'm suppose to start working on my asgmt, but as usual la, being the princess of procrastinator (after you yin, the queen of procrastinator, tho i don't see u delaying ur work), the OD asgmt has got to wait for a couple of days more. hehehe.

went to pizza hut for dinner. ordered set meal 2 (2 reg pizza, 4 soups, 1 jag of pepsi, 4 breadstix) plus another set of cheesy pizza (1 reg pizza, 2 soups, 2 glasses of pepsi and 1 garlic bread). the service crew who took our order was so surprised when we ordered 2 sets of pizzas. hahaha. her stunned reaction was almost hilarious. it was as if she couldn't believe we girls could eat 3 regular pizzas. but come on la, 1 reg pizza is for 2 servings ma. we had 6 ppl altogether so 3 reg pizzas ok ma. wonder why she looked so surprised. hehehe. i couldn't finish da last piece so i ate only the chicken chunks and pineapple leaving the bread half untouched. well this is typical michie leong ler.

after dinner-ing at PH, we went to giant to get some groceries as we plan to cook this coming week. i myself bought chocolates, some apples and hot chocolate. hehehe. i jz can't stop craving for chocolates. i love them too much. yum yum. taste great. i heard that eatin chocolates will make ppl happy. so no harm ma rite? yea i noe itz fattening but i can always go for a skinny-dip after that. hehehe. oh chocolates, here i come babeh!!! huak huak huak huak!!

seems like bel and i will go for a swim again tmrw. aiyah, u noe la, after eating pizza lagi fattening. so we gotta exercise and swim more to offset the extra pounds that we gain from non-stop eating of junk food, tidbits, cheese and the list goes on and on and on. hehehee. rmbr, i live to eat and NOT eat to live. i can never say no to any mouth-watering food. so it's kinda hard for me to control my diet le. which means i will only gain extra pounds instead of losing them.

many rape and murder cases have been happening around in sg.long. i shuddered at the thought of it. those victims, they were so innocent. the mgmt in sg.long has been covering up the cases as i don't see any news regarding those cases were reported in the newspaper or the media. either that, the victims did not report to the police.

double sigh. the world is no longer safe for us. you just gotta flip open the newspaper and u'll see all those bombings, murder and rape cases lining up as the headlines of the day. those news have become the highlights and attention of the society and media. despite these negative news, our government is more interested in the minor things i.e. APs. sigh. they are behaving like a bunch of silly kids fighting over candies and toys.

it saddened me that ppl could be so cruel and brutal. how could they do that to those young and innocent girls? how could they rape and murder them just like dat? don't they feel guilty? don't they feel anything at all? how could they??!! i really couldn't understand. lives are so fragile. young girls like us are so vulnerable, so easily hurt. how could we protect ourselves? even ppl like canny ong, who was a black belt holder, couldn't even proctect herself let alone girls who don't know any self-defence.

the raping and murdering epidemic in sg.long are really frightening. i couldn't stop shivering thinking bout it all. what a sad sad world....

never too late

If you're mad with someone , and nobody's there to fix the situation... You fix it .
Maybe today, that person still wants to be your friend . And if u don't, tomorrow can be too late.

If you're in love with somebody , but that person doesn't know... tell her/him.
Maybe today, that person is also in love with you .
And if you don't say it, tomorrow can be too late .

If you really want to kiss somebody... kiss her/him.
Maybe that person wants a kiss from you, too .

And if you don't kiss her/him today, tomorrow can be too late .

If you still love a person that you think has forgetten you... tell her/him.
Maybe that person have always loved you.

And if you don't tell her/him today , tomorrow can be too late.

If you need a hug of a friend... ask her/him for it.

Maybe they need it more than you do.

And if you don't ask for it today, tomorrow can be too late.

If you really have friends who you appreciate... tell them.
Maybe they appreciate you as well.

That if you don't and they leave or go far away today , tomorrow can be too late.

If you love your parents, and never had the chance to show them... do it .
Maybe you have them there to show them how you feel.

That if you don't and they leave today , then tomorrow can be too late.

remain hopeful

Nothing is worse than someone breaking your heart. To need somebody so badly and then to have to let them go is hard. And as we grow older, the more people break our heart, the worse it can feel each time.

Broken hearts are depressing, embarrasing and difficult. Fortunately, heartbreak doesn't last forever.

Let yourself let go

In dealing with a broken heart, the first thing is to let go completely. If it was not meant to be, then just let them go, and trust that someone better is going to come along. If we go back to that person who broke our hearts, they will see us as nothing more than defeated, and we would risk embarassment.

A good way to just let go is to resist the urge to return, and simply avoid calling them on the phone, emailing or contacting them otherwise.

Feel your heart

It's okay to feel bad. Take some time to feel bad. Take a walk by yourself, or listen to some sad music. There is value to every feeling, as every feeling teaches us something new about ourselves.

Talk to somebody about it. A close friend will let you vent all of your anger.As time goes on we and move further andfurther away into the 'past.' And as each day passes by, the hurt will go away, little by little, until we don't even remember the pain at all.

Keep your eyes forward

The future is rushing towards us faster than we can comprehend, and if we keepour heads turned backwards, looking at the past, we will miss seeing everything that the future is bringing to us.

food, glorious food!!

does anyone noe if there is any good food in kl? i mean real GOOD food la. sigh. in sg.long we can hardly find any "can pass eh" food. everyday if not mamak then leong sing. yucks! very da jelak la. talking bout food, i miss pg so so much le. thinking of all those glorious food makes me lau hau sui. 1 month plus before i can go back to my food haven. double sigh.

now hat i've finally passed up my e-commerce asgmt, i could at least sit back and relax for a couple of days before start working on OD asgmt. and after this, i've to start preparing for final exam jor. sien-nez nia.

just finished watching "triumph in the skies". i lost count of how many times i've re-watched this tvb drama jor. hahaha. told u before d ma, i'm TV2. i jz cant get enough of sam and zoe. it's just so so romantic and meaningful la the story. it doesn't just revolve around love, but it talks about the importance of friendships and families, trust and faith, destiny and fate. to me, this is one of the greatest drama ever. strongly recommended for those who haven't watched it b4. hehehe. i couldn't help but cry everytime i watch this drama. so kam tong la.

went to mid-valley with bello and al last week. spent kinda alot oso. bought myself a baju and also a comforter. the comforter was cheap ma rm23.90 oni. sumore queen size de. hehehe. if expensive oso i wun buy la. u think i print money meh? i strictly live on my ptptn loan. so gotta be more thrifty.

nth much to update u guys oso la actually. but saje entertain this ms.long who complained that i seldom update my blog. so here i am la pal! u gotta und la uni life in utar ho kinda bz wan. if not tests then asgmts d. routine yet hectic. my life is kinda boring. not like urs so cheng choi. me not honey ma so no bees come kacau lo. hahahaha!!

hey any1 out there who wishes to give away ur pups, i can assure u m ur perfect candidate cos i lurve pups alot!! i've been yearning to have one for ages. hehehe. dog is man's best friend. tho i have lotsa good friends, i don't mind having an extra le. the more the merrier ma rite?

well thk god i've got a bunch of crazy friends with me in sglong le. if not i sure homesick wan. with them around, my life has become much more interesting and also spicier. hahaha!! i jz couldn't imagine my life here without them la. to yin out there, i miss u so so much le. miss those zaman kegemilangan in hse 104 back in pj. rmbr our silly jokes and stunts? u standing on the chair hollering "bigger! bigger!" (or was it smth else?) whatever it is, we had a marvellous time with u around dear. "you chiou, you chiouh" (loosely translated "got banana, got banana") and that was a yr ago when we were mamak-ing at murni in ss2. how i miss those times.

that's it babehs for now. i wanna watch another taiwan drama d with my friends. it's about ballet de. very nice oso. hehe..adios!!

disappointed =(

hola tai ka...i'm back after disappearing for a while. dun worry. not that i'm kidnapped by alien or wat. been busy since i came back from pg. for ur info, my hsemates and i went back to our beloved pearl of the orient on the 30th of june. homesick ma go back lo. dat was on thurs le. then on fri went out with cn and al to watch INITIAL D. a movie worth watching. lurve it! tho jay chou was a bit duh duh and dongoi, he was a great racer. won all the racing competiton from the moment he appeared till the end of the show. hehehe. in that movie, he rarely spoke le. he did talk but very limited lo. few words nia. his cantonese beh pass la. but still acceptable la. he's still new ma. hehe.

on sat, yin, al and i went to tarc to attend cn, lk, kelvin and kw's convocation. snapped some pics with them lo. hehehe. lookin at them made me think of the day i graduated. felt like yesterday. sigh. so old jor. kinda miss those days in tarc. miss mum's la sau siu choi, miss pg's mouth-watering food, miss pearl of the orient, miss mum and dad, miss all my friends...nvr ending "miss"...hahaha!

after the convo ended, yin fetched me home lo. rested for a few minutes before goin out with parents again. phew. mum went to church so dad and i shopped around gama lo since komtar toh tar d ma. bought 2 baby-Ts worth RM5 each. duno wat fidelio brand la. at bout 8pm, we went to meet mum and then off we go for dinner somewhere in jelutong.

sunday...sigh. the day i dreaded the most. cos this was the day i had to go back to ulu long. very the ng seh tak la. but what can i do ar? san san (my new friend; to be precise, my dad's friend's daughter), followed us to kl as she wanted to reigster for PR in utar. since i was goin back to sglong, she had to overnight at yin's place lo cos her campus is in pj ma.

well let me story you bout my recent life le. currently, i'm extremely busy with asgmts lo. just handed up one on last fri. thk god. no more fsa, ratios, intepretation, numbers and figures (but still have one more fsa test to go la and that will be in 2 weeks time). one more due on 25th jul (e-commerce) and the last but not least, organizational development, due in aug. as for e-comm, we haven't started anything yet la. didn't even decide to do wat let alone START. haha. then OD lagi cham. i didn't even really noe what the asgmt is all about. i jz noe that we have to pick a topic and then find an article and then analyze. analyze wat i duno la. no read da unit plan ma. so ma duno da requirements lo. typical us la. always love to procrastinate nia. but cant really blame us oso la. jz managed to finish FSA nia. let us rest for a day or two oso not very kor fan ma rite? hehehe. reasons more than fat huh?

went for a swim with bel and yin today at 5smth. of all the time, we chose to swim during rainy season. only crazy ppl like us love doin crazy things. hahaha! swam for less than half an hour it started to drizzle. we only ran for our lives when it poured like cats and dogs. the three of us was panting when we reached the lift. hahaha. however, i had a great time la. long time no play under the rain d. kinda romantic to me.

had some very ho liau and delicious dinner. yin came over so ma cook some good food for her lo. she long time no eat home cooked food jor. we had tom yam prawn, michie's tofu, steam fish and soup. yummy. i'm very full till now. still can taste the prawn and tofu in my mouth. really mouth-watering leh. hahaha. cn, dun jealous oo...huak huak huak huak!!!

i'm kinda disappointed actually. wanna knoe y? well here's the story la. yin' fren, patricia, said she wanna give away her dog as she's goin to s'pore to work. she hoped to find a dog lover to take care of her dog. so yin asked me whether i want mou lo. i said sure wan la. i love pups n dogs and i hope to have one for so long. so yin arranged with pat where to meet. finally, they decided to meet at ming tien at 9.30pm lo. was sooooo excited u noe. could you imagine how i feel then? couldn't wait to see the dog. how happy was i...

but things jz didn't happen as i wish it would. pat called yin sayin that her dad wanted the dog. when yin told me bout it, i was really disappointed. i couldn't blame anyone. but i wanted a pup so much. so so much. i wanted to have one since i was young. but as my parents said no, i could do nth le. sigh. only if i can have one. sob sob...

ok la..enuf of that d la. i'm fine. jz dat a lil bit ..really a lil bit...not very happy lo. but i'll be fine after a while la. hehe. i have got a bunch of crazy and lawak friends around me, worry not. one way or another, they'll be able to cheer me up la. but except al and cy noe how i feel, the rest have no idea unless they read my blog la. sigh..

i guess this will be it la. enough to update u guys with my recent busy life. coi kin tai ka. adios!!